Would also like to know why its difficult to tab target stealthers when they are right next to me WHILE Im stealthed. Never had to click on them before on any server!

Friars are easily killed by Champs, Thanes, VWs... thats some melee classes. Friars are also RP food for any caster or ranged character. So that ~75% of classes can easily kill a Friar. If you are one of the ~25% of classes that will lose to a Friar, then just run away from them. Armsman are better...

Simple fix.. you don't try and fight them solo. Quit whining about a class.